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Why Stress Management is Important
It takes time and work to learn why you’re stressed and to figure
out what to do about it. You have to learn ways to manage stress, and some of them take time and practice. And then
you have to be consistent in using whatever stress management techniques you choose. It can be a real pain in the
neck, and sometimes you wonder if it’s even worth it. Sometimes it feels like stress management is just too
stressful.
Health Effects of Stress
Here’s why stress management is important, though: stress wears
your body out and can even kill you. It wears out your heart and blood vessels, damages your immune system, and
causes digestive problems. It’s hard on every organ, tissue and cell in your body.
Here are some of the health problems that stress causes or worsens:
heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, irritable bowel syndrome, skin diseases, cancer… and the list goes
on.
Stress management is important because it can save your
life.
Relational Effects of Stress
Here’s another reason that stress management is important: for the
people who love you. When you are stressed, you are not a nice person to be around. You are cranky, and every
little thing sets you off. You yell at your kids, your spouse, your employees, and are just plain unpleasant to be
around.
Nobody likes to be around a cranky person, and nobody likes to be
yelled at all the time. Your friends and relatives start distancing themselves from you. If your friends are
avoiding you, if your kids try not to be home when you get there, if your spouse is distant and emotionally
unavailable, maybe the cost of stress is too high. Maybe you should think about stress management while you still
have friends, kids, and a spouse.
Stress management is important because it can save your
relationships.
Cognitive Effects of Stress
Initially, stress makes you more alert and helps you think clearly
and quickly. As time goes on, though, overwhelming, long-term stress depletes your cognitive reserves, and you
start making mistakes. You can’t think clearly, get confused and can’t remember things.
Under extreme stress, you can even hallucinate or get paranoid and
think everybody is out to get you, which is only reinforced by the fact that your friends and family are avoiding
you. You start acting weird, and even you wonder if you are going crazy.
Mental errors, confusion and forgetting things can all be cues that
your stress is out of hand, and that it’s time to buy into stress management.
Stress management can save your mind… and your
job.
Bottom line, there are plenty of good reasons to learn some stress
management techniques. It’ll save you a lot more than it will cost you.
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