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Developing
an Individualized Stress Management
Program
If you are
under a lot of stress, it’s helpful to develop an
individualized stress management program for yourself. You are
unique, not like any other person in the universe, and you need
a program that is created just for you and your specific
circumstances.
Where to Go
for Help
When you are
trying to develop a stress management program, you can begin by
asking the experts. Physicians, counselors, and life coaches
can give you good ideas for your stress management
program.
The most
helpful “expert” for developing an individualized stress
management program might be a naturopath, since this is their
field of expertise. They evaluate you as an entire individual
and help you come up with a plan to become healthier…and that
includes a stress management program.
There are a lot
of places that you can get general information for your stress
management program. Magazines, books, videos, and the Internet
all have tons of information that you can
access.
Another really
good place to look for guidance for your stress management
program is within yourself. Evaluate what has worked for you in
the past and what has not worked. Sometimes we use the same
coping skills over and over again because it’s what we know,
not because it works. We need to evaluate those skills and get
rid of the ones that don’t work, so we can learn new
skills.
What to
Include
Your stress
management program should include:
- A plan for
physical health. Are there foods you need to eat more or
less of? What kind of exercise helps you deal with stress?
Do you get enough rest? Evaluate your health practices, and
decide if there are ways you can
improve.
- A plan for
dealing with strong emotions. Are you okay with having a
weepy day? How will you handle it? How do you deal with
anger, frustration, and disappointment? If you struggle
with emotions, what changes will you
make?
- Stress
management techniques and coping
skills.
- Things you
want to learn that will help you cope with life better,
such as time management
skills.
- Spiritual
practices if they are important to
you.
- Social
support. How will you connect with friends and family? Who
will you connect with? Are there some people you should
draw back from for a short
time?
There may be
other things you want to include in your stress management
program, such as herbs, vitamins, and nutritional supplements.
Some will use aromatherapy, while others will develop better
self-care techniques, such as a weekly bubble
bath.
The point is to
develop a stress management program that works for you. You are
unique, and a one-size-fits-all solution won’t work. You need
an individualized stress management
program.
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